Italian Americans are an important part of the fabric that makes up the great tapestry of America. I am proud of the contributions that we have made on this the 250th anniversary of our great democracy.

I feel compelled to share what I believe we are all thinking about during these challenging times so that the Italian American community may be leaders in restoring unity in this great country  

We all have differences of opinion that are part of living in a free society and sometimes in an Italian family.   When it comes to freedom of speech, we should stand united in protecting it. But with that freedom comes the responsibility to be mindful of what we say. Hateful language is not acceptable from anyone, including the fifth estate.

Many of us disagree with statements made by the political leaders, and that is okay. Our most powerful tool is not anger or division, it is our right to vote. Voting allows us to support those who reflect our values without disrespecting those who do not.

Disagreement should never turn into hostility. We can stand firm in our beliefs while still showing respect to others. I am sure we can all remember a heated family discussion which ended with a loving hug at the end of our discourse. That is the Italian way and what we instill in our children.

Those elected to lead have a responsibility to represent everyone, not just those who agree with them. Leadership should bring people together, not divide or alienate. There is absolutely no place for violence in our political discourse against any leader, at any time. Political leaders must be keenly aware of their words and the influence they may have on a radical few who believe violence can bring change.

That is not the American way.

I very much support our president, and while I may not always agree with him or others in leadership, such as the democratic socialist mayor of New York City, I still respect them. That is what a healthy democracy looks like.

We are living in challenging times, and words are empty without action. In my view, that means rejecting violence and making our voices heard at the ballot box. Italian Americans know that complacency is not an option if we want to preserve our democracy.

Your voice matters. Your vote matters, your actions matter. Use them. Stand firmly for what you believe in and against violence in all its forms.Regardless of political views, this action deserves recognition and appreciation.